Rabbi Modek Ceremonies

Have you ever wondered WHY?

ANSWERS TO INTRIGUING QUESTIONs ABOUT JUDAISM

Why does the day begin at sundown on the Jewish calendar?

The custom of reckoning days in this fashion is based on the first chapter of the book of Genesis. At the end of each day of Creation in Genesis chapter 1, it reads: “And God saw that it was good. And it was evening, and it was morning…”. Additionally in the book of Leviticus (23:32) we read: “… from evening onto evening you shall keep the Sabbath.” Thus, each twenty-four-hour period begins at sundown. The Sabbath and Holidays, for example, begin at sundown, i.e. we begin celebrating Shabbat every Friday evening, which ends twenty four hours later at Saturday nightfall.  (Sourced in part from The Jewish Book Of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 292)

​Why do some Jews sway when they pray?

Swaying, also known in Yiddish as Schuckling, is an ancient Jewish custom. The Zohar, a mystic work written by the second century C.E. Rabbi Shimon Bar Yohai, explains: “Rabbi Jose asks Rabbi Abba, why… Jews alone are in the habit of swaying the body when they study the Law? Rabbi Abba answered: It is proof of the refinement of their souls. “A person’s spirit is Adonai’s candle”, as referred to in Proverbs (20: 27). The light of that candle flickers and waves in harmony with the light of the Torah”. The fourteenth century German born sage, Rabbi Jacob Ben Asher (aka Baal HaTurim), explains that swaying while praying is an expression of awe, similar to the awe felt during the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai. 
Source: (Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 151).

Why does the groom break a glass at the end of the wedding ceremony?

The most popular explanation is that the breaking of the glass commemorates the destruction of the Temple In Jerusalem in the year 70 C.E.. The shattering of the glass is a reminder of our national loss and our enduring hope that we or our descendants will return to Jerusalem and rebuild the Temple. Other explanations relate the custom to medieval practices of warding off evil eye. Source: Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 42

Why is the honor of witnessing up-close the reading of an open Torah-scroll named an “Aliya”?

Aliya is Hebrew for “ascent.” Originally, the prophet, priest or king would read the entire weekly Torah portion during synagogue worship. Later-on in history, the Torah reading was divided among members of the congregation. Since the reader would physically ascend a platform (Bimah) to recite the portion, as well as assume a role previously reserved for dignitaries, this honor was termed an “Aliya”, ascent. In later centuries it became evident that many Jews were not knowledgeable enough to musically read the Torah portion, thus a designated reader, the “Baal Koray”, master-of-reading, would do so, and the term Aliya would then refer to the honor of witnessing the reading up-close and reciting the blessing before and after the performance of this Mitzvah.   
Source: (Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 133).

Why is the wedding ceremony held under a Huppah?

A Huppah is a wedding canopy usually a large piece of decorated fabric (sometimes a Talit, a prayer shawl) supported by four firm poles. It is a reminder of ancient times when the groom brought the bride to a room in his house at the end of the betrothal (engagement) period to copulate for consummating the marriage. The sexual joining, termed Yihud, was considered the essence of the wedding. During Middle Ages when weddings were performed in the synagogue, it became customary to erect the type of Huppah still in use today, symbolizing the Yihud room. Source: (Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 35).

Why do Jews observe the Sabbath as a day of rest?

The idea of the Sabbath as a day of rest comes from the Torah. The second chapter of the book of Genesis tells that after creating the world in six days, God rested on the seventh day. In the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20: 2-14; and Deuteronomy 5:12-15), the Sabbath is referred to as a day of rest for servants as well as for masters, and as a day of commemorating Israel’s release from slavery in Egypt. These ideas also appear in Exodus 31:16,17. The Sabbath is an ancient protection against labor exploitation and slavery, intended to elevate the spiritual lives and quality of life for all. Source: (Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 162)

​Why are the Sabbath candles lit before sunset on Friday, and not on Saturday proper?

In the Jewish calendar all days begin at nightfall (of the evening before the actual day in question). Lighting fire on Shabbat is prohibited in the Torah. So, as not to desecrate the Sabbath by miscalculating the time on which night falls, it has become customary to light the Sabbath candles early – usually eighteen minutes before sunset, and approximately forty minutes before nightfall. The Sabbath ends on Saturday night approximately twenty minutes after nightfall. The end of Sabbath is too traditionally marked with a candle-lighting ceremony called “Havdallah”. Source: (Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 163)

Why is the word “Amen” often said during public prayers?

“AMeN” is an acrostic formed from the first letters of the three Hebrew words El Melekh Ne’eman, The Lord is a Trustworthy King (Talmud Shabbat 119b). The word appears for the first time in Torah in the book of Numbers (5:22) in relation to the Sotah ritual. As a response to a prayer or as a declaration, “Amen” means “truly” or “so be it”. According to Talmud Ta’anit 16a, after the Temple in Jerusalem was destroyed in 70 c.e. “Amen” replaced the longer traditional Temple response to prayer, “blessed is His glorious name forever and ever”. Because many congregants in early times were unable to read, the leader of the service would read an entire prayer, the congregation would listen, and at the conclusion respond “Amen. Fundamentally, the “Amen” response is a verbal statement of inclusion or affiliation when present at Jewish communal prayer or study. Source: (Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 152)

Why are the number of candles increased every night rather than decreased?

The Talmud discusses whether one candle should be lit the first night two the second and so on – the view of the School of Hillel the Elder. Or conversely, whether eight candles should be lit the first night, seven the second and so on till one candle is lit on the last night – the view of the School of Shamai. The decision was made to follow the opinion of Hillel the Elder, and that is how Hanukkah candles are lit till this day. This decision follows the principle that in matters of holiness (light) one should always increase and not decrease.

Why do Jews eat Potato Latkes on Hanukkah?

Potato Latkes are eaten because they are fried in oil, and oil symbolizes the miracle of the cruse of oil which lasted for eight days instead of one. Additionally, the Hebrew words for “oil” and for the number “eight”, Shemen and Shemonah respectively, share the same three letter root, Shemen שמן. This teaches that oil symbolizes not only the substance of the miracle but also its length in days. Oil is also significant in Jewish tradition because in ancient times it was used to ritually sanctify or anoint high ranking officials, such as kings and priests, as well as holy objects used in Temple rites. In Israel these fried potatoes are called Levivot, reminiscent of the Levites who served in the holy Temple of Jerusalem. The Latkes, thus, connect us to our sacred past in a variety of ways. (Sourced in part from The Jewish Book Of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 267)

​​Why is a Mezuzah placed on the doorpost of Jewish homes?

The Mezuzah is a small parchment inscribed with verses from the Bible. It is rolled up, inserted in a case, and attached to the doorposts of our homes. This practice is mandated in the Bible (Deuteronomy 6:9). It is intended to remind us of three things: 1. Torah law, 2. of God’s Unity, 3. to enter, and to leave our homes with love for God and for fellow human beings. Source: Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 113

Why is a Jewish male child circumcised?

​Biblical law requires that every son of a Jewish woman be circumcised on the eighth day after his birth. The word for circumcision in Hebrew is Brit, which means “covenant.” This refers to a pledge God made to Abraham (Genesis 17:2), in which God promised to bless Abraham and make him prosper, if Abraham would be loyal to God, and follow God’s Mitzvot, directives. This covenant was entered into and sealed by the act of circumcision, called in Hebrew Ot Brit, “sign of the covenant”. Source: Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 14

Why wear a Yarmulkah (Yiddish) or Kipah (Hebrew)?

The Yarmulkah is a skullcap worn by Jews, traditionally by Jewish men and, increasingly, by women. While the meaning of the word Yarmulkah is unknown, it is thought to derive from the Hebrew expression Yareh M’Elokim (in awe of God). This is based on a statement by the Talmudic sage, Huna Ben Joshua, who said, “I never walked four cubits with uncovered head because God dwells over my head” (Kidushin 31a). Wearing a Yarmulkah is a widely accepted custom but not codified in Torah law. The Hebrew word Kipah simply means “covering”. Source: (Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 121).

Why is pork so objectionable to Jews, even more than other non-Kosher animals?

The Talmud teaches, “It is not proper to raise pigs”, adding, “Cursed is he who raises pigs.” Scholars associate the deep Jewish aversion to the pig with two historical periods. One, the Hasmonean period (second century B.C.E) when Antiochus, the Syrian-Greek King, ruled Israel and tried to force Jews to sacrifice pigs in the Temple in Jerusalem. The Maccabees eventually defeated this oppressive regime. The second reason is that during the early centuries of the Common Era the Romans, who ruled Palestine, cherished the pig as one of their symbols. To the Jews the pig became a reminder of the Roman reign of terror. Consequently, the animal was considered more repugnant than other non-kosher animals (The Second Jewish Book Of Why, Kolatch 1985).

​Why is Jewish identity traditionally passed from mother to child?

Jewish law considers a child Jewish if the mother is Jewish. The rule was established because one can be sure who gave birth to a child but the paternity is sometimes questionable. In 1983 the Reform rabbinate by a majority of three to one, recognized the validity of patrilineal descent, by which the child of non-Jewish mother and a Jewish father is to be considered Jewish if that child is reared as a Jew and is identified formally and publicly with the Jewish faith. Source: (Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 14).

Why are some wines considered kosher and others not?

The Talmud indicates that wine intended for use in connection with idolatrous (pagan) worship, called Ya’yin Nesekh, was absolutely forbidden to Jews. Later this prohibition was extended to include all wine handled by Gentiles. Today it is generally presumed that Christians and Muslims are not idolaters, and wine handled by them may be used by Jews, although the tradition of caution and avoidance of non-kosher wine lingers. Source: Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 95

Why is the word L’Chayim used when raising a glass and making a toast?

L’Chayim means “to life” in Hebrew. The Talmud, teaches that the custom of toasting someone with the word L’Chayim has its origins with the great scholar Rabbi Akiva. At a banquet he gave in honor of his son, Shimon, Rabbi Akiva offered each guest a glass of wine and saluted them with the words, “To the life and health of the Rabbis and their disciples!” (Shabbat, 67:b). (Second Jewish Book of Why, Kolatch 1985, p. 327).
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